Tuesday, March 30, 2010

Heartache~!!!

I guess many of you may know that I have a adik angkat studying in Standard 3 right now ya.
Few days ago, juz have a chat wif her after I was informed that she was ill-treated by her friends in the class. She actually did not dare to tell Aunty the truth.

This is what I heard from Aunty:
My sis told aunty: "Aunty, i tell u sth but u don't scold me ya. my classmate bully me in the class. Don't scold them. Later they don't want be friends with me."

That's the moment I feel pain. Reali pain to see someone you care of is ill-treated by the friends around her & still she keeps it to herself.

This conversation actually should be in Mandarin. I find it a bit inconvenient to type in Mandarin. So i translate it.

...........................................................................................................
Me : Harlo...
Sis : Harlo...y calling?
Me : Do you have something to call me?
Sis : My friends pushed my forehead with their hands and they oso pulled my hair.
Me : Then do you tell the teacher?
Sis : No. I come bc tell aunty onli.
Me : Next time juz tell the teacher. dont let them do it again.
Sis : in the class they make the waste paper into round shape & throw to each other & it hit me.
Me : Did they day sorry?
Sis : No. Got 1 time, they knock at my spectacles & it almost hurt my eyes.
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The others were the part I console her & tell her the right thing to do if she face that again.
My sis is nt a normal child, if u reali know wat I mean.
But for me, she is my sis.

9 comments:

bemusedyin said...

omg i feel sad... (vry rare ok!) ='(

when i was in form1, 2 girls kenakan me. Girl1 ask me to stare at her palm. so i stare.. i said i can see nothing.. then she ask me to look closer at the palm of her hand. so i did. then when her hand is 5cm from my eyes she piak my face. my glasses punya nose rest actually poke my eyes and i feel pain like hell. i am angry oso. but the girl1 and girl2 think it is very funny and they laugh. I just didn't respond n show my pokerface although I am very very angry and also sked at the same time. im scared to tell them that what they do is wrong bcs i sked to stand up for myself. my spectacles bengkok but i told my parents i fell down.

tell your sister its ok to let go off the bully this time. but if next time it happens she should know how to defend her rights or maybe ignore it gracefully. maybe now have to lose abit nevermind but in the future someday a bully will realise that they are the losers. (wtf *emo)

Anonymous said...

yin...its ok..u hav katak now....

bemusedyin said...

bully me arhh. i blog abt u! . haha

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nn said...

kesian your sis. i feel bad for her. because my little brother was bullied when he's in kindergarten. even the parents of the boy who bullied him didn't believe it. luckily, the teachers know the truth. i suggest you yourself go and talk to the teacher...

abc said...

u r so good.....i also want to call u bro d...so that i hv someone protect me too:)

LUCKY_STRIKE_14 said...

Yin...so sorry to know that from u...anyway, u have gor gor here d...dont worry~!!!

nn...yeah...tat come across my mind 2...i am going 2 do so 2...anyway, sorry 2 know about ur bro's case...but I believe that justice will unveil 1...

abc...whether i am ur bro or not, i will be there for u there...

Vancious said...

"Don't scold them. Later they don't want be friends with me."

She not only kept all to herself but also cherish for the friendship.

"Aunty, i tell u sth but u don't scold me ya."

Seems like she knew it was not right to be quiet but she still insisted.

She is kind and her friends will know that. She is still a brave child to tell the truth. Hope she will be doing fine and I believe she will. All The Best!

myprivateangel said...

wtf emo?
emo it's on top it's nice to watch emo how ruin life